ALoisBird
I grew up internationally. I love to write. I write creatively and love to bring people together for creativity and creative writing. I'm an imaginative person who desires to live life with all sincerity of truth. I'm growing into my own person and becoming, after years of not being fully present in my own life. I'm a follower-of-Christ and I'm an open-hearted person who desires to love well.
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What I Hope to Share
I hope to bring validation, kindness, love and awareness that we are all in this together. I hope to create and cultivate community that I would like to have and be a part of. A community of loving growth-oriented people who are beautiful, intentional and creative souls in our own unique ways.
What Brought Me to ShareWell
I'm here because I have been through a very traumatic and confusing childhood. Lots of neglect, gaslighting and manipulation. Being the overlooked, highly sensitive, emotional, and tender-hearted youngest of a dysfunctional family dynamic with an overt and covert narcissistic dynamic between my parents. My sister withdrew and has her own issues and my brother bullied me verbally and emotionally for my whole childhood and even a little of my adulthood. Both my siblings have signs of mental struggles, my brother having hyperactive ADHD as well. I have high-performing ADHD, further isolating me, and putting lots of pressure on me. Moving around a lot as a child (both house and country) we did not have proper stability. I've since gone through a process of forgiving and letting go of a lot of the childhood pains, despite things still being more or less the same. Having tried to be honest with my family, and come to terms with myself, my mistakes, my journey. I know I need genuine community, which due to all my experiences and struggles (as well as where I live in the world) I have not been able to find (or feel like I belong). I'm excited to connect with people here, and also offer love and support.