Recently(ish) divorced after an 18 year marriage to a narcissist. Started dating at a young age (14), married young (21). Was "groomed" for a long time. Experiences physical, emotional, sexual, verbal, and financial abuse as well as constant gaslighting. He started having an affair while I was recovering from brain surgery (learning to walk, talk, and eat again), continued to make me feel like I was the crazy one. He decided to end our marriage, which I am now seeing was a huge blessing and answer to prayer, as the Lord removed me from an abusive situation that I would have probably not otherwise gotten myself out of.