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mcintyrelila

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My husband died in February of 2025. Daughter-in-law gave me the silent treatment because I said no. She is the narcissist. I felt like I had lost my whole life and in a way I did. Finding Share well was a God send. The people on Sharewell helped me so much and I just felt a need to give back. With God being a big part of my life, I do speak of my experiences in my recovery. I do speak of my relationship with God, because it is hugh part of it. Ty

299 attended2045 peers supported39 hosted29 positive reviews
Member since Jul 2025
Next group:Lila's Hope/Quiet Body DoublingStarts in 12 hours15 spots left
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"Really nice relaxing, casual group with good boundaries - just what I needed and I don’t know it. Many Thanks, Lila! "
VictoriaAndDoggie
VictoriaAndDoggie
Lila's Break/ Quiet-Crafts+Hobbies.
2 days ago
"Got lots done, thanks"
Jenny_IIWII
Jenny_IIWII
Lila's hope, Monday Body Doubling
2 days ago
"Got to alternate work and play...the flexibility to relax my way was helpful. Thanks Lila! "
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Edenshiloh
Lila's Break/Quiet Crafts + Hobbies
1 week ago
"A lovely group from Lila! Thank you!!"
mags4
mags4
Lila's Break/ Quiet-Crafts+Hobbies.
1 week ago
"I really enjoy body doubling in Lila's room. Her projects get me motivated. Thanks Lila"
elianaahava2022
elianaahava2022
Lila's hope, Monday Body Doubling
1 week ago
"These ladies are so wonderful! I thoroughly enjoyed this session! Meeting like-minded people who have their fair share of experience in setting healthy boundaries (and keeping them) has "
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deniparks
How to set boundaries.
1 week ago
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Hosted Groups

Lila's Hope/Quiet Body Doubling
mcintyrelila

mcintyrelila

Lila's Hope/Quiet Body Doubling

People helping each other.

Affirmations
Finding purpose
Emotional regulation
1/16
Today 10:30 PM90 min
How to set boundaries.
mcintyrelila

mcintyrelila

How to set boundaries.

Boundaries for protection.

Emotional abuse
Boundary setting
Anxiety
3/10
Sat, 7/18, 1:00 AM60 min
Lila's hope, Monday Body Doubling
mcintyrelila

mcintyrelila

Lila's hope, Monday Body Doubling

People, who need people.

Abandonment
Assertiveness
Anxiety
1/16
Mon, 7/20, 3:00 PM90 min
Lila's Break/ Quiet-Crafts+Hobbies.
mcintyrelila

mcintyrelila

Lila's Break/ Quiet-Crafts+Hobbies.

A quiet place in order to reset one's mindset.

Affirmations
Good company
Emotional regulation
1/16
Mon, 7/20, 10:30 PM90 min
How to set boundaries.
mcintyrelila

mcintyrelila

How to set boundaries.

Boundaries for protection.

Emotional abuse
Boundary setting
Anxiety
1/10
Sat, 7/25, 1:00 AM60 min
Lila's hope, Monday Body Doubling
mcintyrelila

mcintyrelila

Lila's hope, Monday Body Doubling

People, who need people.

Abandonment
Assertiveness
Anxiety
1/16
Mon, 7/27, 3:00 PM90 min
Lila's Break/ Quiet-Crafts+Hobbies.
mcintyrelila

mcintyrelila

Lila's Break/ Quiet-Crafts+Hobbies.

A quiet place in order to reset one's mindset.

Affirmations
Good company
Emotional regulation
1/16
Mon, 7/27, 10:30 PM90 min
How to set boundaries.
mcintyrelila

mcintyrelila

How to set boundaries.

Boundaries for protection.

Emotional abuse
Boundary setting
Anxiety
1/10
Sat, 8/1, 1:00 AM60 min
Lila's hope, Monday Body Doubling
mcintyrelila

mcintyrelila

Lila's hope, Monday Body Doubling

People, who need people.

Abandonment
Assertiveness
Anxiety
1/16
Mon, 8/3, 3:00 PM90 min
Lila's Break/ Quiet-Crafts+Hobbies.
mcintyrelila

mcintyrelila

Lila's Break/ Quiet-Crafts+Hobbies.

A quiet place in order to reset one's mindset.

Affirmations
Good company
Emotional regulation
1/16
Mon, 8/3, 10:30 PM90 min
How to set boundaries.
mcintyrelila

mcintyrelila

How to set boundaries.

Boundaries for protection.

Emotional abuse
Boundary setting
Anxiety
1/10
Sat, 8/8, 1:00 AM60 min
Lila's hope, Monday Body Doubling
mcintyrelila

mcintyrelila

Lila's hope, Monday Body Doubling

People, who need people.

Abandonment
Assertiveness
Anxiety
1/16
Mon, 8/10, 3:00 PM90 min

About

Providing Support For

Affirmations
Finding purpose
Emotional regulation
Emotional abuse
Boundary setting
Anxiety
Abandonment
Assertiveness
Good company

What I Hope to Share

I remember when I felt helpless, and having someone I can talk to with the same issues that I had. It helped me so much to continue to work on myself and to help others because I was helped so much. I am not a professional but I am one of my own life. And I've been finding that so many of us are the same and we are all caught up in the same way. And maybe that could be helpful and the only really good thing I'm good at is setting boundaries. I believe that the past that I have lived gives me an insight that helps me to survive. Narcissism is running rampant at this day and age. And so many of us are seeking answers. To be able to keep who we are and survive is a miracle. Being able to articulate the blessings and the gifts shown to me through my life, only makes sense to share. I am 64, well now it's 65 years. And I have a lot of experience in this area.

What Brought Me to ShareWell

At the time when I decided to join I felt isolated. Deciding to stay because I found many people were like I was.