Mike Lardi
Hi there, I’m Mike! I am a compassionate and Certified Medi-Cal (California Medicare) Peer Specialist here at ShareWell. 💙⭐️ I am MORE than my diagnosis. But it officially began with severe bipolar (type 1) and deep psychosis. Textbook lived experiences of distorted reasoning and impaired judgement—not knowing which version of me was real and which parts were illness, beginning in 1998. Toxic shame and fear of socialization from my earliest memories as an Artist and an HSP. Additional multi-decade and LAYERED RECOVERY work on “quieting my constantly spinning mind” over learned-poverty, ADHD-distinct-from-bipolar episodes, life-crippling anxiety disorders, cPTSD, alcohol dependency, p*rn addiction, disorganized attachment. And then there's the weird stuff: "Orphan spirit" and "Religious spirit" of oppression teaming up against me along with blatant and covert attacks against my faith. Working my way out of bitterness, unforgiveness, and a defiled soul of blaming others; as well as cutting loose all false guilt, self-pity, self-hatred, confusion, and heavy waves of immense discouragement year-over-year. Neither I or my family survived ANY of this story without surrendering to God’s Plan of Redemption, receiving a New Inheritance in Jesus, and being determined to push past pride and fear, getting help from many, many people. 🕊️ You are not alone!
Providing Support For
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Who I Help BestVerified
I'm an excellent go-to friend for figuring out what to do and where to implement real-world strategies when someone has a serious episodic mental illness that causes life impairments like bipolar (manic-depression) does.
What I've Been Through MyselfVerified
I'm not a parent and haven't been married, so I can't offer much lived wisdom there. But at 45, I've been through the gamut—from college and career paths to business startups (and failures), to relationships shifting or ending because of mental illness stigmas. I know what it's like to have a lot, have a little, and learn contentment through both abundance and loss, including isolation and chronic underemployment due to health problems.
What I Hope to Share
My desire is to be a “Hope Dealer” for anyone longing to overcome unimaginable obstacles and vulnerabilities. In our support groups, it's not just about good leadership on my part. So often I myself need to be “re-humanized” from all the heaviness of life by the simple power of storytelling and Hope! Plus I'm funny. Because it seems like a literal joke what's happened to me. And yet how much have I put up with, that I didn't have to? The challenges of growth are so painful, but I can’t lose sight of the rewards. So I am here to give and receive that reminder. I am grateful. There is such a generous spirit of people looking out for and helping one another here at ShareWell. We will flourish!
What Brought Me to ShareWell
I found ShareWell a few years after nearly losing my life to a thyroid gland going “crazy” (doctor’s own words). Hormonal crises are on a whole other level! Just like my worst hospital lockdowns of the past, it left me broken and in isolation and devastation. Never before had I encountered this level of health, career, and financial collapse after 12 years of keeping myself out of the mental wards. I had to summon the will to rebuild my life like many times before—but this time around it’s been extra hard to KEEP that flame burning. I’m in this community because I know the power of having access to people who “get it”. I also live in a rural area of a low-income county, and that means there are few resources. So ShareWell is a vital connection point!
Host Reviews
"Mike is fantastic. He is so caring and is willing to answer any questions without judgment. I also appreciate that he is willing to pray for me if I need it."
"What an amazing host. I am definitely going to be back I feel so relaxed from this group. Very calming"
"Highly recommend because Mike provides a comforting space for support. Look forward to the next session. "
Hosted Groups
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People enduring crisis, challenges or changes.
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People enduring crisis, challenges or changes.
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People enduring crisis, challenges or changes.