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Talk 1-on-1 with a Peer Specialist About Singles

Being single is not a problem to solve, but it can come with loneliness, pressure, and identity questions that are hard to talk about. A 1-on-1 session with a Peer Specialist offers a private place to connect with someone navigating the same season.

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Want more focused support around relationships? These Specialists offer 1-on-1 conversations shaped by lived experience.

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Laurel Handfield

Laurel Handfield

Available today

I support anyone navigating burnout, stress, and anxiety

Anxiety
Infidelity
Shaera H.

Shaera H.

Available today

Experienced peer support for emotional clarity. MHPS.

Anxiety
Bipolar disorder
Trish

Trish

Available today

Hi! I am 62 years old—a survivor, an overcomer, and a woman of faith who has lived through diagnoses: chronic health challenges, PTSD, grief, anxiety, and trauma. I have survived mental and physical trauma, including religious trauma, dysfunctional family dynamics, narcissistic behaviors, gaslighting, abandonment, rejection, and power and control. As the youngest of five children, these experiences affected how I saw myself for many years. Through separation, healing, faith, and self-discovery, I began to find freedom. I discovered my identity, embraced my positive qualities, and learned that I am more than what happened to me. Throughout my life, I have experienced tremendous grief. I lost a sibling in 1989, my father in 2015, my mother in 2022, and other loved ones along the way. Each loss became part of my journey and helped shape the woman I am today. I am the mother of one son and grandmother of three beautiful grandchildren. My family has faced challenges, including ADHD, PTSD, and childhood seizures, yet I also see incredible gifts, talents, strength, and potential beyond measure. From 2014 until June 2022, I was my mother's caregiver as she lived with dementia. It was one of the hardest challenges of my life. It brought me to my knees and taught me to move beyond codependency and place my complete trust in God. It taught me humility and helped me discover purpose in my pain. Although my mother had four living children, I often felt I stood alone. Others may have considered me the "black sheep," but I came to believe God had chosen and set me apart for something greater. My mother was one of my greatest influences and mentors, and I loved her dearly. My son and I are also walking through our healing journey—recovering from childhood trauma, rebuilding our relationship, and seeking spiritual healing. After 13 years of estrangement, we are reconnecting and learning how to bond again. I'm not where I want to be, but thank God, I'm not where I used to be. In 2012, substance use (prescribed medication) and an eating disorder became ways of trying to escape a painful world. But God said, "You shall live and not die." And I am still here—to use my lived experience to encourage others and share how I survived, healed, and overcame. I am an expressive writer. Poetry and spoken words allow me to release the bad, the good, and the ugly. Paper does not judge. Writing advocates and gives a voice to the voiceless. The pen 🖊 spills what our lips cannot speak—our truth. My motto is: "Knowledge Brings Clarity, and Clarity Brings Power." Professionally, I am a faith-based Certified Peer Specialist (CRSS), Dementia Facilitator, and Resource Specialist supporting women and children impacted by domestic violence. My lived experiences have shaped my passion for advocacy, education, peer support, and helping others find resources, hope, and a voice. Through everything I have endured, I have learned that every attack does not deserve a reaction. I have learned when to be silent, when to speak, and—most importantly—when to walk away. In 2025, I became a curse breaker. Through the wisdom of God and clarity received from a deeply personal experience with Him, I began breaking down layers of generational pain and trauma. My healing became about more than me. It became about what I would pass down to my son, grandchildren, and generations to come. Instead of passing down the pain of the past, I choose to pass down the greatest gift God has given us—the gift of LOVE and how to acknowledge a LIE vs the TRUTH. My journey is about healing the inner child, breaking down every layer, and gaining clarity for mental health wellness, spiritual healing, and freedom. I am breaking what no longer needs to continue. I am healing what was once left wounded. I am replacing generational pain with generational love. My global brand is Rebirth4Love—representing survival, transformation, healing, purpose, faith, generational change, unconditional love, and the power to begin again. My message to the world is: OUR PAST DOES NOT DEFINE OUR DESTINY! There is life after trauma, purpose after pain, love after rejection, freedom after breaking generational cycles, and always an opportunity for rebirth.

PTSD
Fear of abandonment
Izzy

Izzy

Available tomorrow

Peer support for narcissistic abuse & emotional healing

Anxiety
Depression
Pilar Arsenec

Pilar Arsenec

Available today

Peer Specialist/Coach in mental health & recovery

Bullying
CPTSD
Topic context

Understanding singles

Being single can be empowering, but also lonely — especially in a society that often centers relationships. For many, it comes with feelings of inadequacy, social pressure, or questions about self-worth. Peer support creates a space to explore the realities of single life with honesty and humor. Sharing this journey with others helps reduce shame, foster self-love, and build fulfilling connections outside of romantic relationships.

Why it helps

How a Peer Specialist helps with singles

A Peer Specialist helps singles because culture often treats being partnered as the default. A 1-on-1 session offers a more honest space to talk about the emotional reality of single life, without pressure to fix it or rush toward a relationship.

In a session

What a singles specialist session often covers

  • Loneliness, longing, and the pressure to be partnered
  • Dating burnout, app fatigue, and emotional fallout of modern dating
  • Identity, self-worth, and building a full life while single
  • Friendship, community, and connection outside of romance
Good fit for

Who these specialists may help

  • People who are single and want 1-on-1 peer connection with someone in the same season
  • Anyone dealing with dating burnout, loneliness, or family pressure
  • People wanting to build a steady, full life beyond relationship status
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Frequently asked questions

Who books a 1-on-1 single Peer Specialist session?

People from many backgrounds and ages book sessions. Some are newly single, some have been single for a long time, and some are navigating dating fatigue or cultural pressure. The focus is honest 1-on-1 peer connection.

Is this a dating or matchmaking service?

No. Peer Specialists offer 1-on-1 peer support, not dating services. The focus is on emotional support, honest conversation, and connection with someone who understands the experience of being single.

Do I need to want a relationship to book a session?

No. Some members want a relationship, some are happily single, and some are in between. What matters is wanting 1-on-1 peer support around the experience of being single.
Group support

Want to join a group conversation about singles?

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