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Talk 1-on-1 with a Peer Specialist About Self-sabotage

Self-sabotage often shows up just as something good is starting, like a job, a relationship, or a healthier habit. A 1-on-1 session with a Peer Specialist offers a private place to talk about that pattern with someone who has been there.

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1 self-sabotage Peer Specialist

Private 1-on-1 conversations shaped by lived experience. Open a profile to read their story and book a free 15-minute intro call.

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Mike Lardi

Mike Lardi

Available tomorrow

Bold Emotional & Spiritual Recoveries. Faith-based.

Bipolar disorder
Emotional regulation
Shaera H.

Shaera H.

Available today

Experienced peer support for emotional clarity. MHPS.

Bipolar disorder
Emotional regulation
Izzy

Izzy

Available today

Peer support for narcissistic abuse & emotional healing

Shame
CPTSD
Laurel Handfield

Laurel Handfield

Available tomorrow

I support anyone navigating burnout, stress, and anxiety

Anxiety
Infidelity
Pilar Arsenec

Pilar Arsenec

Available today

ICF ACC/Peer Specialist/Coach in mental health & recovery

Bipolar disorder
Shame
Elle Ji

Elle Ji

Available tomorrow

Support for love addiction, underearning, and low self-worth

Financial stress
Shame
Devin Brannen

Devin Brannen

Available today

Providing support & encouragement for those in recovery.

Anxiety
Addiction
Amy Grinnell

Amy Grinnell

Available today

Feel seen heard and supported through compassion and a safe space. Through substance use/other addictive behaviors and struggling and trying to cope with mental health diagnoses - anxiety, depression, ptsd, bi-polar and BPD, I have found my purpose in creating positive, trusting, non-judgmental and supportive spaces with those seeking connection as they navigate addictive behaviors, mental health disorders, difficult emotions, trauma, and life challenges. My approach centers on empowering others and providing hope. My own journey is lived experience with childhood trauma, ptsd, mental health conditions, substance use, domestic violence and toxic relationships. My joy is being a mom to two boys, three cats and my bird. I love the city but I am a country girl by heart delighted to have lived next to a farm growing up. This shaped my love of all animals. Musical theater and music are my passion. I am a Haunt actor at Legends of Fear and play a different witch every year. Definitely typecast lol. My dream job is to be a Panda Nanny. I am an introvert who wears a mask as an extrovert. It’s very hard for me to escape childhood trauma and to trust but I am learning and healing one minute at a time.

Anxiety
Emotional regulation
Why it helps

How a Peer Specialist helps with self-sabotage

A Peer Specialist helps with self-sabotage because the pattern usually carries shame and confusion. A private session can help you name the move, look at what is underneath without judgment, and hear how your specialist learned to interrupt the cycle.

In a session

What a self-sabotage specialist session often covers

  • Withdrawing, procrastinating, or undoing progress at key moments
  • Fear of success, intimacy, or being seen
  • How self-sabotage connects to old beliefs, shame, or protection
  • Practices your specialist used to notice the move earlier and choose differently
Good fit for

Who these specialists may help

  • People who keep getting in their own way at the same point in any cycle
  • Anyone wanting private support around fear of success, intimacy, or change
  • People tired of self-help that frames sabotage as just a discipline problem
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Related topics

These topics often connect with self-sabotage and may lead you to another specialist who fits what you are navigating.

Frequently asked questions

What does a 1-on-1 self-sabotage Peer Specialist session help with?

Sessions help you talk about the patterns where you stop, withdraw, or undo your own progress, and the older feelings or beliefs underneath those moves.

Is self-sabotage a real pattern or just an excuse?

It is real. It often shows up around things people want most, with roots in fear, shame, or protective beliefs. A Peer Specialist can help you talk about that without judgment.

Can a Peer Specialist help me catch self-sabotage in the moment?

Yes. Many specialists share what helped them notice the move earlier, slow down the urge, and choose a different next step.
Group support

Want to join a group conversation about self-sabotage?

Join a free peer-led self-sabotage support group with others who understand.

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