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Online Support Groups Near Honolulu

Whether you are in Kailua, Kaneohe, Pearl City, Kapolei or somewhere else on Oahu, ShareWell has live online support groups that cross the ocean. Honolulu is a place where family means everything, and more and more families here are split between the islands and the mainland, with the people you love a long flight away.

Every group meets online by live video, so you can join from home.

These online groups start during the day and evening in Hawaii time, so they fit a day near Honolulu.

Upcoming Groups

Parents of Autistic Children

Member-led

Parents of Autistic Children

Parents raising autistic children

Caregiving
Family
Parenthood
3/16
Tue, 10/6, 12:30 AM • 60 min
IVF Cycle Support

Member-led

IVF Cycle Support

For women navigating IVF cycles and fertility stress

Anxiety
Fertility
Stress management
2/16
Tue, 10/6, 1:00 AM • 60 min
NPD Abuse Support Group

Member-led

NPD Abuse Support Group

For survivors seeking support after NPD abuse

Emotional abuse
NPD Abuse
Relationship struggles
10/16
Tue, 10/6, 2:00 AM • 60 min
Conflict Resolving Communication
Mpumi

Mpumi

Coach
Conflict Resolving Communication

People navigating conflict with clarity and confidence

Growth
Relationship struggles
Self-care
Open
Tue, 10/6, 5:30 PM • 60 min
Local life

Family across the water

Oahu is home, and staying here has become hard for many of the people who grew up here. Grown children leave for college or work in Las Vegas, Seattle or California, parents remain in the house in Aiea or Mililani, and the family that once sat down together every Sunday now gathers on a video call. Those who stay often hold two jobs to afford it and live with several generations under one roof, which is a comfort and also a reason there is no quiet place to fall apart. Military families posted to the island arrive with no local circle and leave just as they build one. The time difference with the mainland means that by the time a daughter in Seattle is free to talk, her mother in Honolulu is cooking dinner.

Why it helps

How peer support helps near Honolulu

A peer group is a steady weekly connection that does not depend on a flight. You join from home on Oahu at a time that works in Hawaii time, meet people who understand living far from the people they love, and the group is still there if you are the one who eventually moves.

Inside the room

What members near Honolulu talk about

  • Missing children and grandchildren who moved to the mainland
  • Carrying the cost of staying in the islands
  • Living with several generations in one house and no privacy
  • Being posted to Oahu with no family within thousands of miles
Good fit for

Who these groups may help

  • Parents and grandparents whose kids have left the islands
  • Local families holding down two jobs to stay
  • Military spouses and service members new to the island
  • Anyone caring for kupuna at home while working
Find your group

Support group topics for people near Honolulu

Every topic has its own page with live groups, so you can start with the one closest to what you are carrying.

Join from anywhere nearby

Areas around Honolulu

Every group meets online, so you can join from home anywhere around Honolulu.

  • Kailua
  • Kaneohe
  • Pearl City
  • Aiea
  • Kapolei
  • Ewa Beach
  • Mililani
  • The Windward Side
  • Oahu
Local help lines

Crisis and help lines near Honolulu

ShareWell groups are peer support and are not crisis or emergency services. If you or someone near you is in danger, call 911, or call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at any hour.

  • Hawaii CARES
    1-800-753-6879

    All of Hawaii, crisis and support, 24 hours a day, every day

    Official site

Frequently asked questions

Do I need to live in Honolulu to join?

No. Groups are online, so you can join from Kailua, Kaneohe, Pearl City, Aiea, Kapolei, Ewa Beach, Mililani or any of the islands.

Are there groups at a reasonable hour in Hawaii time?

Yes. Because members join from every US time zone, there are groups through the morning, afternoon and early evening in Hawaii time, and this page shows the ones that fit the local day.

Can I join from Maui, Kauai or the Big Island?

Yes. The groups are online and open to anyone in the state, and the times shown adjust to your device.

Can my family member on the mainland join the same group?

Yes. Some families use the same weekly group as a shared time, and the group time works out to a different local hour for each of you.

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