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Talk 1-on-1 with a Peer Specialist About Cheaters Anonymous

Whether you are processing the impact of being cheated on or trying to understand your own behavior, a 1-on-1 session with a Peer Specialist offers private space for honest conversation without judgment or pressure.

Start with a free 15-minute intro call.

1-on-1 support

Peer Specialists who focus on relationships

Want more focused support around relationships? These Specialists offer 1-on-1 conversations shaped by lived experience.

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Shaera H.

Shaera H.

Available today

Experienced peer support for emotional clarity. MHPS.

Bipolar disorder
Emotional regulation
Izzy

Izzy

Available today

Peer support for narcissistic abuse & emotional healing

Shame
CPTSD
Trish

Trish

Available tomorrow

Hi! I am 63 years old—a survivor, an overcomer, and a woman of faith who has lived through diagnoses: chronic health challenges, PTSD, grief, anxiety, and trauma. I have survived mental and physical trauma, including religious trauma, dysfunctional family dynamics, narcissistic behaviors, gaslighting, abandonment, rejection, and power and control. As the youngest of five children, these experiences affected how I saw myself for many years. Through separation, healing, faith, and self-discovery, I began to find freedom. I discovered my identity, embraced my positive qualities, and learned that I am more than what happened to me. Throughout my life, I have experienced tremendous grief. I lost a sibling in 1989, my father in 2015, my mother in 2022, and other loved ones along the way. Each loss became part of my journey and helped shape the woman I am today. I am the mother of one son and grandmother of three beautiful grandchildren. My family has faced challenges, including ADHD, PTSD, and childhood seizures, yet I also see incredible gifts, talents, strength, and potential beyond measure. From 2014 until June 2022, I was my mother's caregiver as she lived with dementia. It was one of the hardest challenges of my life. It brought me to my knees and taught me to move beyond codependency and place my complete trust in God. It taught me humility and helped me discover purpose in my pain. Although my mother had four living children, I often felt I stood alone. Others may have considered me the "black sheep," but I came to believe God had chosen and set me apart for something greater. My mother was one of my greatest influences and mentors, and I loved her dearly. My son and I are also walking through our healing journey—recovering from childhood trauma, rebuilding our relationship, and seeking spiritual healing. After 13 years of estrangement, we are reconnecting and learning how to bond again. I'm not where I want to be, but thank God, I'm not where I used to be. In 2012, substance use (prescribed medication) and an eating disorder became ways of trying to escape a painful world. But God said, "You shall live and not die." And I am still here—to use my lived experience to encourage others and share how I survived, healed, and overcame. I am an expressive writer. Poetry and spoken words allow me to release the bad, the good, and the ugly. Paper does not judge. Writing advocates and gives a voice to the voiceless. The pen 🖊 spills what our lips cannot speak—our truth. My motto is: "Knowledge Brings Clarity, and Clarity Brings Power." Professionally, I am a faith-based Certified Peer Specialist (CRSS), Dementia Facilitator, and Resource Specialist supporting women and children impacted by domestic violence. My lived experiences have shaped my passion for advocacy, education, peer support, and helping others find resources, hope, and a voice. Through everything I have endured, I have learned that every attack does not deserve a reaction. I have learned when to be silent, when to speak, and—most importantly—when to walk away. In 2025, I became a curse breaker. Through the wisdom of God and clarity received from a deeply personal experience with Him, I began breaking down layers of generational pain and trauma. My healing became about more than me. It became about what I would pass down to my son, grandchildren, and generations to come. Instead of passing down the pain of the past, I choose to pass down the greatest gift God has given us—the gift of LOVE and how to acknowledge a LIE vs the TRUTH. My journey is about healing the inner child, breaking down every layer, and gaining clarity for mental health wellness, spiritual healing, and freedom. I am breaking what no longer needs to continue. I am healing what was once left wounded. I am replacing generational pain with generational love. My global brand is Rebirth4Love—representing survival, transformation, healing, purpose, faith, generational change, unconditional love, and the power to begin again. My message to the world is: OUR PAST DOES NOT DEFINE OUR DESTINY! There is life after trauma, purpose after pain, love after rejection, freedom after breaking generational cycles, and always an opportunity for rebirth.

PTSD
Fear of abandonment
Pilar Arsenec

Pilar Arsenec

Available today

ICF ACC/Peer Specialist/Coach in mental health & recovery

Bipolar disorder
Shame
Laurel Handfield

Laurel Handfield

Available tomorrow

I support anyone navigating burnout, stress, and anxiety

Anxiety
Infidelity
Devin Brannen

Devin Brannen

Available today

Providing support & encouragement for those in recovery.

Anxiety
Addiction
Amy Grinnell

Amy Grinnell

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Feel seen heard and supported through compassion and a safe space. Through substance use/other addictive behaviors and struggling and trying to cope with mental health diagnoses - anxiety, depression, ptsd, bi-polar and BPD, I have found my purpose in creating positive, trusting, non-judgmental and supportive spaces with those seeking connection as they navigate addictive behaviors, mental health disorders, difficult emotions, trauma, and life challenges. My approach centers on empowering others and providing hope. My own journey is lived experience with childhood trauma, ptsd, mental health conditions, substance use, domestic violence and toxic relationships. My joy is being a mom to two boys, three cats and my bird. I love the city but I am a country girl by heart delighted to have lived next to a farm growing up. This shaped my love of all animals. Musical theater and music are my passion. I am a Haunt actor at Legends of Fear and play a different witch every year. Definitely typecast lol. My dream job is to be a Panda Nanny. I am an introvert who wears a mask as an extrovert. It’s very hard for me to escape childhood trauma and to trust but I am learning and healing one minute at a time.

Anxiety
Emotional regulation
Elle Ji

Elle Ji

Available tomorrow

Support for love addiction, underearning, and low self-worth

Financial stress
Shame
Why it helps

How a Peer Specialist helps with cheaters anonymous

A Peer Specialist helps because cheating brings up shame, grief, anger, and confusion that can be hard to voice. A 1-on-1 session can offer room to process those feelings, hear how your specialist navigated something similar, and move forward with less isolation.

In a session

What a cheaters anonymous specialist session often covers

  • The emotional fallout of cheating for all people involved
  • Shame, guilt, anger, grief, and the confusion that follows betrayal
  • Trust, accountability, boundaries, and relationship decisions
  • What honest recovery and self-understanding looked like for your specialist
Good fit for

Who these specialists may help

  • People affected by cheating in a current or past relationship
  • Anyone trying to understand their own behavior around infidelity
  • People looking for nonjudgmental 1-on-1 space to process betrayal or guilt
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Related topics

These topics often connect with cheaters anonymous and may lead you to another specialist who fits what you are navigating.

Frequently asked questions

Are cheaters anonymous Peer Specialists only for people who cheated?

No. Sessions welcome anyone affected by cheating, whether you were cheated on, did the cheating, or are processing the impact of infidelity in any role. The focus is on honest 1-on-1 support.

Is a cheaters anonymous Peer Specialist session like a 12-step program?

ShareWell Peer Specialists offer 1-on-1 peer sessions, not 12-step programs. There is no formal step structure. The focus is open conversation, shared experience, and emotional support.

Can I book a session if I am still in the relationship?

Yes. Many people book while still figuring out what to do. There is no pressure to have already made a decision about the relationship.
Group support

Want to join a group conversation about cheaters anonymous?

Join a free peer-led cheaters anonymous support group with others who understand.

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